When Should You Book Your Wedding Officiant?

So, you’re engaged! Yay!

You probably know the venue and have already selected the photographer – you’ve got your main priorities covered!

But then what? You’ve got a laundry list of vendors to contact, meet with, and choose, And all this hassle on top of working at your day job while juggling every other priority in life.

And there are all these websites that give you conflicting, and often unrealistic, information about when to book your wedding vendors.

Your wedding planner or coordinator is your best source for this information, but there’s one vendor (aka me) who has quite a particular timeline that varies on many factors.

I used to be one of those wedding officiants who wanted couples to book me well in advance, but having been in this rodeo for over a decade now (yes, I’m getting old), I’ve learned that anything is possible if I’m available.

Though, there are certain times of the year when I’ll receive a request for a popular weekend date and think, “How could they possibly assume I was available? Couples have been requesting this date for YEARS!” and remind myself that most weddings are the couple’s first wedding. They have no idea, and they shouldn’t know, when the proper time to book a wedding officiant is, especially if they were hoping to utilize a family or friend to officiate.

Don’t worry! I’ve created this comprehensive, but not definite, fun form to assist you in booking your wedding officiant. Complete the form below to learn when you should book your wedding officiant!

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Summer wedding with a first look
Ideally, it’s nice for golden hour photos to take place when there is a suitable break in the timeline so that it doesn’t interrupt speeches or dances. So we recommend that if the sun sets earlier in the day, plan to take golden hour photos after the ceremony. If the sunset isn’t until later, you can plan on doing it after speeches and the first dances.

Below is an example timeline of an ideal wedding plan:
11:30 AM - Photographer Arrives (Getting ready, dress, detail photos)
12:30 PM – Bride puts on dress and bride individual photos
12:45 PM – Groom heads to first look location
1:00 PM – First look, letter reading, couple photos
2:00 PM – Bridal party photos
2:45 PM – Family Photos
3:30 PM – Family Photos done
4:00 PM – Hide away for Ceremony (eat something, drink water, have time alone together)
4:30 PM – Ceremony Starts
5:00 PM – Ceremony ends – cocktail hour begins
6:00 PM – Grand entrance with bridal party
6:15 PM – Dinner starts
6:30 PM – Speeches
7:00 PM – Cake cutting and dessert served
7:30 PM – Start Dances (couple’s first dance, father daughter, mother son, then open dance)
8:30 PM – Sneak away for golden hour photos
8:45 PM – Sunset time
9:00 PM – Return to dance floor
10:30 PM – Sparkler Send Off
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Winter wedding without a first look
If you are getting married in the winter and choosing to do your first look as you walk down the aisle, you will want to have your ceremony earlier in the day. This will ensure you have enough time to get your bridal party, family group shots, and couple portraits before you run out of daylight. Doing a first look down the aisle means you will need to consider hosting a cocktail hour for your guests while doing those portraits. We recommend around 2 hours.

Here is an example timeline for a wedding in the winter where the sun sets at 4:00 pm, and the couple wants to do their first look down the aisle.
11:00 AM – Getting ready portraits
12:00 PM – Groom and groomsmen group and individual photos
12:30 PM – Bride and bridesmaid group and individual photos
1:00 PM – hide before ceremony starts
1:30 PM – Ceremony begins
2:30 PM – Ceremony ends, guests head to cocktail hour
2:30 PM – Family group portraits
3:00 PM – Bridal party group photos
3:30 PM – Couple portraits heading into sunset
4:00 PM Sunset time, head to reception
4:30 PM – Cocktail hour ends, guests get seasted
4:45 PM – Grand March
5:00 PM – Dinner served
5:30 PM – Speeches
6:00 PM – Cake Cutting
6:30 PM – First dances
7:00 PM – Photography coverage done

The Bottom Line

Hopefully, you’re feeling a bit better now on the specifics of wedding rehearsals. The most important takeaway? Be sure to have fun during your rehearsal!

For a bonus tip, make sure you have a clear plan for who is bringing the marriage license the day of your wedding!

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